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  • Getting Things Done

    I think a similar title may have already been used by someone writing a France blog, but Getting Things Done (or not, as is more commonly the case) is a massive part of living here.

    The past week has been pretty quiet - we had a public holiday on Tuesday, which meant that most shops were also closed on Monday to create a four day weekend. This was annoying because in a normal week shops have extremely varied and bizarre opening hours anyway; everything is closed on a Sunday except cafes; some shops, the post office and most bakeries close on Saturday afternoons and most high street shops are closed until lunch time on a Monday. It is also hard to get things done on a Wednesday. All this meant that having a four day weekend meant a lot of planning of meals and activities so that we wouldn't starve / be bored to death over the holiday.

    On Saturday two of my friends had a joint birthday party, starting with a party at their flat and moving on to Le Chat Noir, the only decent club in Dijon. As I have mentioned before, I'm not a big fan of clubs in France, but Chat Noir was actually really good fun. I'd never been there before but it was much more like clubs at home than the other ones I've been to so far. There was a really strict dress code and the bouncers wouldn't let anyone in who was drunk, wearing trainers or, to be honest, that they just didn't like the look of. The entry fee was 11 euro which was pretty steep but you got a free drink included and as drinks are about 8 euro a pop, it ended up not actually being that bad! The music was really eclectic - they played everything from French rap to the Grease soundtrack, but everyone was happy and dancing and I had a really good night. Although French clubs have really late closing times (usually around 5 or 6am) I left at around 3.30 with a few other people from the birthday party. In time-honoured tradition, the first thing we did was hunt around for food. In Scotland, of course, this would invariably involve chips, burgers or kebabs; in France we got pains au chocolat and tartes au fromage. Incidentally, I would advise against really cheesy food when drunk - it's a really bad idea! After we'd gorged ourselves on pastry we started looking about for a taxi and trying to phone one of the taxi companies to send one out to us. The only one we could get hold of on the phone insisted that they would send a taxi but couldn't specify when, or even if it would be in the next three hours. We decided to walk home! There wasn't much else we could have done in the circumstances but the walk back took nearly two hours - Chat Noir is on the edge of the town center furthest away from the direction of campus, which is about 20 minutes by bus out of town. We also got lost quite a few times, but all in all it was a good way to sober up before crashing into bed so no harm done!

    Sunday was, as you would probably expect, a bit of a wasted day. We literally stayed in our pyjamas all day watching films and collapsed back into bed really early - still wearing the same pyjamas!

    All in all I was glad when Wednesday came, as I always am at the end of the weekend because it means having a set structure to your days and always having something to do and somewhere to go. I had a list of things that needed doing over the next few days and was keen to get going with them as I am notoriously lazy about admin and am quite scared that I am going to leave it all to the last minute with disastrous consequences! Top of my list was transferring money into my French bank account. I had assumed that getting a bank account in France would be easy enough, and that once I had one I could use it as my main account and therefore not get charged £1.25 every time I use the atm with my RBS card. As I said last time though, it took over three weeks from opening my account to actually get a bank card and then it was the public holiday, so I went down on Wednesday morning to try to transfer the cash manually, saving myself bank charges. For anyone coming to Dijon next year, I would advise against banking with BNP, no matter how funny you may find it to start with! They don't let you put cash into your account in the branch nearest to campus, only in the one down the street, you can't do it after 12 noon or, of course, on a Wednesday. The woman at the desk explained this to me in extremely slow, clear French with lots of hand movements and pauses and repetiton so that I, the simpleton who wanted to do something so crazy as to actually give money to a bank on a Wednesday, would be sure to understand. I have to admit, I flounced off in a bit of a strop, muttering under my breath and longing to be back in Scotland where every little thing doesn't present a challenge.

    I am still not speaking as much conversational French as I would like, owing mainly to the fact that as French people tend to go to the university in their home town and live with their parents while they study, there are very few native French speakers in halls and the common language tends to be English. So last night I went along to the international evening at O'Kil, a pub in town. The basic setup was that there were loads of tables, each with a sign saying which language was being spoken there, you could go to the one that was your own native tongue and help French students practice their language skills, or you could choose another language and practice your own. It's a really good idea and it worked well, making what was essentially an academic excercise into something fun and relaxed. We met quite a few French people and somehow got roped into agreeing to do a filmed interview with them for their English class. They were keen to explain the project to us in English but their language skills weren't great and they refused to speak French, so I'm entirely sure what I've agreed to, but hopefully it will be fun and a good experience...or else maybe she'll lose my number!

  • Here, There, and Everywhere

    What haven’t I done this week? Had a full night’s sleep, that’s for sure.

    What I have done is seen my brother off at the airport after entertaining him for a week, recovered from the election-night celebrations, had my friends from back home – Harriet and Zanny – stay with me over the weekend, gone to see Harriet and Zanny whilst they were in New York, registered for next semester’s classes, written far too many essays and papers, read an impossible number of books, researched and wrote an article for the college paper (www.biconews.com), and partied.

    Having home friends stay was indescribably fantastic. I love the friends I have here, but it is refreshing to have people around you who understand your cultural references, who don’t remark on your accent (well, Zanny’s from Cambridge so she always gives me a hard time over my northern vowels and expressions), and who share the same experiences as you. Unless you have been away from your home, family and friends for any significant amount of time, it is difficult to understand this feeling of automatic and uncomplicated belonging that you get from your friends.

    When I met Zanny and Harriet off of their Greyhound bus (I told them it was a rookie error to take Greyhound – their bus was over an hour late), we went out to eat in Chinatown. At the restaurant, I was given my twenty-first birthday presents – a calendar featuring photos from our flat last year, a photo frame of my friends at various Edinburgh landmarks holding signs saying “We Love Han”, and lots of other goodies. I have to admit, I almost cried.

    Friday night was my friends’ introduction to American partying. They learned beer pong and flip-cup from my Haverford friends, and they were able to salsa the night away at La Fiesta, the dance hosted by Haverford’s Hispanic societies. After an afternoon of shopping, we repaired to yet another party, which I sadly had to leave early due to feeling rather sick. I had planned on heading to New York with Harriet and Zanny on Sunday, but I postponed it until Tuesday, when I have no classes, due to my being unwell.

    After a mere five hours of sleep, Tuesday dawned far too early and far too cold. I hopped on a Chinatown bus, and was in New York under two hours later, ready for fun and sightseeing. Following a trip on the Staten Island Ferry, a wander around Chinatown and some shopping, I bid an almost-tearful farewell to my home friends and hopped on yet another Chinatown bus back to Philly. Due to missing my train home by mere minutes, I got to hang out in a rather ghetto McDonalds until the time for the next train appeared.

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    And now it’s Wednesday night and I am looking forward to a lie-in tomorrow. A day of minimal reading, writing and thinking hopefully lies ahead.

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