Six full days at Haverford has not been enough to inure me against the whooping enthusiasm of the American students here.
From Sunday until Wednesday morning, I lived in an international bubble of student from across six continents. We dutifully watched the video that would familiarise us with the American way of life (my favourite being when we were told that Americans can only have shallow, non-meaningful relationships), and traipsed from building to building, meeting to meeting, always accompanied by our cultural differences and incomprehension at certain aspects of American culture. On our last day together as an international group, we ran up the steps made famous in the Rocky I film, and had a slightly intimidating “dance party” at Bryn Mawr – an all-female college down the road.
And then, on Wednesday, the new batch of freshers began trickling in. By lunchtime, we were surrounded by American eighteen year-olds and their parents. We became different again – our internationality had brought us together, but now it marked us out, and the usual “cute accent” remarks were endured (okay, we all love them really).
Being an international student has taught me many things so far – that the Puerto Ricans have an independence movement, that you can’t walk more than fifty metres in Dubai because the heat is so hot, that Canadians watch BBC programmes, and that you can be tall, blonde and white and still call yourself Japanese.
Haverford somewhat removes its international exchange students from the incredibly well-organised chaos that is their Customs Week (what we know as Freshers’ Week, but without the alcohol). The team assigned to help us through the initial stages at Haverford has chosen to continue hanging out with us (thanks!), and we’ve been making our own fun in between the various seminars and workshops on everything from the Honour Code to how to get additional health insurance (every time I hear those words I feel an immense surge of pride for the NHS).
This week has been one of tradition and ritual, with everyone going mad for the Dorm Olympics (a riot of overt bribery, spontaneous gymnastics and games involving shaving cream and cheesy wotsits) and speeches by the President and other members of staff reminding us all how lucky we are to be at Haverford. And we are lucky – Haverford seems to me to be like a boarding school for the over-18s, and whilst some may not agree with the idea, it appears to be the reality of American liberal-arts education. The Scottish university system is as close as Britain gets to liberal-arts (where students study a variety of subjects and only choose their degree in the last two years), but anyone used to the English system would be perplexed by the PE requirement, or that English majors still take science and maths classes.
If my first week at Haverford can be so enlightening, I eagerly anticipate the beginning of classes on Tuesday. But before that, there’s First Drinker, the party that celebrates the end of the dry Customs Week and my first American keg party – I’ll report what I remember.
